Friday with a freaky Old (friend) Guy

Friday with a freaky Old (friend) Guy

It is just a story sharing about funny weird thing i experienced yesterday. 

I felt so sad. Because I had been doing wrong to somebody I knew. He was one of my friend but then I found that he got me wrong thinking that our relationship was special. While I never think that our relationship was too special. Many times he strove to be close to me, chased me where ever i was, seek for my identity from another people, were really annoying and bothering me. Yesterday, in the parking spot of FKM UI, Friday, 29 December, I was accompanied by my best friends kak Riry, kak Yulia,  kak Vierto, kak Lus. They helped me cope with the situation through talking to that freaky guy. In fact, I could not help myself being rude to him regarding his silly manner. But they kept telling me to be patient and not being too serious and angrily or misbehave with the guy.

It was kak Vierto who really tempted to advise the guy. She explained to him what a gentle man should have done towards a girl, but in the end I found that our efforts were in vain. Kak Vierto and all of us were not able to control our emotional. I didn't know why, speechless. But actually, it was the thing I felt before for a couple of times. I could not help controlling anger regarding the crazy little thing he did.

Kak Yulia, she was more wise and mature than us. She was trying her best to talk with the guy, telling him that he must change his mind, open eyes and dare to see the truth. It’s not wise bothering Marlina, since Marlina is just a new student and is trying hard her best to increase her academic performances. I thanked God, kak Yulia wisely treated him.

It was kak Lusy, she tried talking to the Guy, but then she was afraid, she would bring hatred to the heart of the guy, and afraid of the impact of her misbehave. Hahaha, yeah, I was sure, I guessed that kak Lucy was afraid doing sin and would obtain an impact of what she did to the strange guy that she just knew.

After all the story was over, Now I realize feeling satisfied that I have expressed all things in my head, in my heart, so that I just can pray and ask God for God's mercy for me for being rude and being failed to perform LOVE to those who treat me wrong. All things I hope are the power from God touching to the bottom of his heart that he would regret and repent from sins of his bad deeds to the girl that he confess to be his best friend.

Indeed, he should realize that Love never hurt someone else's heart. Love forgets, love never fails, love sacrifices, love forgive, love dares to let go, love opens new precious thing that God has already set up for us.

From him, I learn a lesson. Be proactive to forgive someone else’s wrong deed to us. Forgive him doesn’t mean that we compromise and willing to be treated that way, but we just dare to say “wrong” to the wrong things, and “fine/good/right” to right things in a gentle and wise ways AND dare to forgive him. There’s no need reacting (angry or emotional) towards his deeds.  AND it takes my attention that I need God’s help to calm my heart, and take this as a new lesson at the end of the year 2012.